Let’s stop pretending fat folks don’t get it in.
Fat people have sex. Great sex. Loud, sweaty, headboard-shaking sex. We ride, we get ridden, we bend over, we straddle, we moan, we dominate, we take charge — and yes, we absolutely deserve pleasure without apology.
The problem isn’t our bodies. The problem is how society treats them. Fat folks are either desexualized or fetishized. Either we’re invisible, or we’re someone's secret kink. But here’s the truth: our bodies are not obstacles to overcome. They’re instruments of pleasure — and we’re about to show you how to play them.
Step One: Unlearn That Bullsh*t
Let’s be real. So many of us were taught that our desirability ends where the scale begins. That sex is only for the thin, the flexible, the flat-stomached, and the perky-nippled. But that's a lie rooted in shame, and it’s time to let it go.
Sex gets hotter the moment you stop performing and start feeling. That includes feeling desirable, feeling in control, and feeling worthy of being worshipped — no matter your size.
You do not need to lose weight to ride a face. You do not need a smaller stomach to bend over. You do not need permission to take up space in the bedroom. You are the main event.
Step Two: Position Yourself for Pleasure
Bodies are different, so sex should be, too. Comfort is not the enemy of kink — it’s the foundation of sustained pleasure. Here are a few fat-friendly positions that make sex feel better, not harder:
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Modified Cowgirl: Straddle your partner while they sit upright with back support (a sturdy couch or sex chaise works wonders). Use the angle to control depth and pace, with less pressure on your knees.
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Edge-of-the-Bed Doggy: You’re on all fours on the bed while your partner stands or kneels behind. It gives deeper access with less strain on your back and wrists.
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Side-by-Side: Lying on your sides, facing each other or in a spooning position, allows for close, intimate strokes without body weight becoming a barrier.
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Sex Furniture: Think wedges that support your curves, door swings for weightless, gravity-defying fun, and sex chaises to make even the wildest positions feel supported and sustainable.
Don’t be afraid to grab a toy, a cushion, or a strap to make it feel right for your body. That’s not cheating. That’s knowing what the hell you’re doing.
Step Three: Talk That Talk
Confidence isn’t just how you move your body. It’s how you talk during sex. Fat folks don’t need to shrink or stay quiet. Take up space with your voice.
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“You like watching me ride you like this?”
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“Tell me how good I feel wrapped around you.”
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“Don’t hold back — I want to hear it.”
Affirmation creates arousal. Say what you want. Say what feels good. Moan louder. Be unafraid to take verbal control.
Step Four: Dress for Turn-On, Not Cover-Up
Lingerie isn’t about hiding what you hate — it’s about highlighting what you love. So skip the shame and wear what makes you feel powerful. Sheer robes, crotchless panties, body harnesses, mesh — if you feel sexy in it, you are sexy in it.
And if you feel best naked, that’s valid too. Let your belly hang. Let your thighs clap. Let your stretch marks show. There’s nothing sexier than a body that’s alive with pleasure.
Step Five: Use Toys That Work With Your Body
Certain toys just hit different for curvy bodies — and yes, we deserve them.
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Wand vibrators deliver powerful, external stimulation and don’t require acrobatics.
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Remote-controlled toys can be controlled by a partner, so you can lay back and enjoy.
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Dual-stim or pulsing vibrators can be adjusted to your curves, and they're excellent for deeper clit and G-spot play.
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Strap-ons with adjustable harnesses are great for all genders and sizes, especially during switchy or dominant play.
Pleasure should fit your body, not the other way around.
Final Thoughts
Fat people fck. Fat people fck well. Fat people f*ck beautifully, creatively, joyfully — and deserve to be seen, heard, touched, praised, and wrecked with intention.
You are not too big for pleasure. You are not too much. You are not hard to love.
You are a full-course meal. So serve it up hot.
Ready to turn up the heat?
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💋 Because your body isn't the problem... it's the fantasy.
